Monthly Archives: August 2013

How to Load a Dishwasher – and Why It Matters


clean-dishwasher-naturally-800x800Are you one of those people who think it really doesn’t matter how you load a dishwasher? For us thrifty, time-conscious perfectionists, it does matter – though we would never disown a friend or divorce a spouse over it.

No, I’m not advocating the unique loading system in the picture to the left. While I don’t have a Scripture text to support my “dogma”, this may be a helpful post for someone out there who needs moral support in their dish washing fetish – or to someone who wonders why they are always eating on washed dishes with sterilized food particles firmly stuck on.

Over the years we’ve had lots of house guests; for meals, for overnights and for extended periods of time. I enjoy offering hospitality that includes food – either snacks or a full meal. And I always appreciate it when my guests offer to help clean up after the food – well, maybe not “always”.

You see, I have very definite ideas for the proper way to load a dishwasher and very good, well-thought-out reasons for those loading procedures. My concept of proper dishwasher loading takes into consideration efficiency, thrift, hygiene, and longevity for my tableware. Let me share some of my dishwasher processes.

       Rinsing Food-encrusted Dishes

Rinse the dishes before loading. It doesn’t matter if it’s done under a running faucet or in a water-filled sink, if you are concerned about your water bill. There is nothing worse than finding food stuck on a dish or an eating utensil after the dishwasher has been run, I don’t care how sterilized they are. Somebody had that fork in his mouth. That stuck-on gravy was served 4 days ago.

A friend suggested that I skip the rinsing and run all loads on the pots-n-pans cycle. But feeling there is a reason for the various cycles on a dishwasher – such as preserving the colorful design or the glaze on your stoneware or your best china – I didn’t take her advice.

       The Loading Process

I always load from the back to the front of the top rack. There are several reasons for this. 1. The top rack of my dishwasher will come off the track on the back end if I load the front end first, and it’s a real hassle to get it back on track. 2. It’s easier to see how full the rack already is without having to pull it all the way out. So, the rack wears better and my loading time is faster. 3. I don’t have to search for a place to fit the last cup in, if I load from back to front on the top rack.

Allow enough space around the dishes to insure full coverage from the water spray mechanism onto the dishes. Don’t load dishes on top of other dishes if you want them clean (this is especially important if you don’t take time to rinse them first.) Also, load dishes in a way that allows them to drain well on the inside part where the food or beverage is to be served. You don’t want to serve dishwasher detergent with your meal because the dish was not rinsed or drained properly. I have discovered detergent scum on a dish, cup or bowl that was loaded near the detergent dispenser on the bottom rack, and positioned so that it could not be rinsed and drained well.

Don’t wash wooden spoons, wooden bowls, etc. in the dishwasher, particularly if the item is made of fine wood, or has a finish on its surface. Don’t wash things on the bottom rack that may melt by being near the heating element, such as those made of soft plastic. Our hot water is very hot, and so is the heated-drying element.

Loading the dishwasher well also facilitates the unloading process. For instance, I separate knives, forks and spoons in the utensil rack which makes a faster job of unloading into the utensil separators in the drawer where they are stored. (I also separate forks, knives, and spoons by size in the drawer to make table setting at meal times easier and faster.)

I wash dishes on the “hi- temp” setting and allow them to air-dry to save on electricity.

       Partial Loads

I don’t run partial loads – the dishwasher has to be full. Running a half-empty dishwasher uses more water.  If you pay for town water it will affect your pocketbook; if you have your own well, it could deplete your water supply in a dry season. Partial loads must be done more often, which results in more electricity for running the washer, more fuel for heating the water, and more work for the septic system (unless you are on the town sewer system – which might involve a wastewater charge).

By the way, I only use dishwasher (and laundry) detergent that are safe for our septic system; the natural bacteria in the septic is not destroyed – hence, better to break down the waste that ends up in the septic holding tank. This also results in fewer visits from the septic waste removal truck.

       Unloading the Dishwasher:

Unloading the dishwasher is also by design. I always unload the bottom rack first to avoid splashing water that may have settled on the cups, glasses, or bowels which were washed on the top rack. In this way there is less towel-drying of the things on the bottom rack, which usually have drained well from the washing process.

Because I do not use the “hi-temp dry” setting, I do a quick wipe on surfaces that might have accumulated water.  To avoid any bacteria growth that could develop on stacked wet surfaces, I don’t put dishes on my shelves with water on them.

By the way, make sure to change your dishtowels often and hang them so that they dry thoroughly between uses.

You might think I’m being picky about my dishwasher routine, but I hope you have picked up some pointers on efficient use of the dishwasher. (Or perhaps you have decided to use paper plates and plastic ware for all your meals?)

We all need to care for this planet which God created, preserving its resources for future generations. And we all need to be good stewards of the material blessings in our possession. Happy dishwashing!

©2013, Marcy Alves

“Me, Me, Me”: Facebook and the Culture of Narcissism


narcissismAm I the only person on Facebook who has taken notice of a somewhat bizarre phenomena? Can some of my under-thirty or thirty-something FB friends and acquaintances give me some insight?

Maybe you have not noticed, but there seems to be a deluge of photos of “me” on Facebook, especially among younger females (married and single) and some younger males. Many of the photos are sultry, sensual, posed, “look-at-me” postings. Sometimes these photos are people taking pictures of themselves.

I can’t help but ask, “What’s the deal here?” What is the aim of these photo postings? Are they advertising availability? Are these self-photo posters looking for acknowledgement, encouragement, validation of worthiness or attractiveness (“Wow, you’re looking good!”)?

What’s the real message here?

What I think I’m seeing is a need many young people feel, to be approved of for their physical appearance. And here’s where the warning bells and whistles start to go off in my head.

Wouldn’t you rather have someone approve of you because of what is on the inside? Or are you afraid that no one will see what is inside of you, if the outside isn’t alluring?

I want to get personal here with my readers who claim to be follower of Jesus. I believe we need to take care of our physical body – according to Scripture it’s the temple of God. When you repented of your sins and invited Christ into your heart, the Holy Spirit actually came in – the life of Christ is now inside you. Now your body is God’s temple, not a temple for “me” worship.

I understand wanting not to look like the slob who doesn’t care enough to bathe, put on clean clothes or comb his hair before being in public (and FB is very publilc) – you are an ambassador of the kingdom of God, planted on earth to represent Him wherever you are. When I go out into the public, I make sure I look presentable, that my hair is combed and I don’t have food on my face. I do it because I am seen, not to be seen.

Looking your best is one thing; but having the need to have others look at you and approve of you because of the way you look is narcissism – which means “inordinate fascination with oneself.”  “Look at me! Aren’t I beautiful, or handsome, or buff, or attractive? Wouldn’t you like to get to know me and how awesome I am?”

As Christians we need to do some self-examination. Why exactly am I doing what I’m doing? Am I doing it to be seen? Or do I need the approval of others, because I don’t have the right kind of self-esteem?

The things you post on Facebook and other social media, how you look, what you say, what you promote, the kind of humor you approve of, the kind of vocabulary you use – all tell a story of your relationship with God and with others who are created in His image.

Here are a couple verses from God’s manual on Christian behavior to think about:

“For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.” Romans 8:4-7 (ESV)

“Flesh” here can mean the physical body and/or fleshly desires. Is what you are posting appealing to your own or some else’s flesh?

Here is another verse to consider:

“Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.” 1 Peter 3:3-4 (NLT)

In the context of the rest of the passage, the Apostle Peter was speaking to women who are trying to win their unsaved husbands to the Lord. But the principles in these verses and the rest of the passage should be applied by all Christians. I know men who are authoritative, strong, and influential, yet have a gentle and quiet spirit inside. I know women who are beautiful in a pair of sweats, with their hair pulled back in a ponytail, with no make-up on.  They would not win a beauty contest, yet there is something beautiful about them.

Your posts to your “friends” are often being seen and read by your friends’ friends and their friends – it’s very public. As a believer, your written or photo posts are representing your Heavenly Father and His kingdom. If you want to win others to Jesus, the above passages gives us a clue as to how to do that, as does,1 Peter 3:1b-2:

“ . . . your godly lives will speak to them . . . They will be won over by observing your pure and reverent lives.”

The question we have to ask ourselves is, do we want to reflect the inner beauty of Christ, in order to win others to Him, or do we just want to get the focus on our outward appearance, our “coolness”, or our edgy lifestyle choices, in order to attract people to us?

Some questions to ponder: who are you trying to impress? Who or what is on the throne of your life? Which kingdom do you represent – God’s kingdom or the kingdom of “me”?

©2013, Marcy Alves

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